You love your boyfriend, he’s just great isn’t he? While at the same time in the back of your mind your quietly worrying about the relationship. What if he isn’t so great, and is actually a cheating, dirt-bag boyfriend? Like the saying goes, girls need a reason, guys just need a place. Typical men. Dating is built on trust, so what if you don’t trust your man and suspect your boyfriend is cheating? Here are a few super awesome signs:
Be sucpicious of Social Media.
The Internet is for porn and social media these days. Finding someone online is not that difficult, especially with dating sites and Facebook apps, instant messenger, and forums. When your dating someone, it is actually quite difficult to meet someone new because your dating and typically spending all your free time with each other. Social media is an outlet for a guy to meet someone new without you knowing about it. Who’s in his IM list? Check his browser history, has he been on a dating site recently? A little digging can go a long way. Be careful though, if your man is innocent and finds out you were snooping around, there are going to be problems. Respect your man’s space with in reason.
Schedule change. What you didn’t know?
Were all creatures of habit. Guys form a routine and stick to it. While some men may be spontaneous, this is not true for the day to day stuff. So if their is a sudden change, without you knowing why, that’s a red flag? You shouldn’t jump to the conclusion that something is up, but as before, do a little digging around. Work hours increase or did he join an organization like Toastmasters, or did he make a new gym schedule? Though were habit forming, things change and you have to adapt. Just be tuned into whats up. The most important part is how you found out. Were you told or did you have to ask? Read More…