Why do men cheat? I touched on this in a previous post on men moving too fast sexually and why it bothers girls to no end. It boils down to THREE things: 1) Sex drive determined by genetics 2) women who empower men to cheat (it takes two to tango and men are cheating with another woman), and 3) men who are not in love with you because they are not satisfied with themselves. All the men who cheat will fall into one of these three categories, its that simple. Once you understand why men cheat, you should definitely read up on how to spot a cheating boyfriend , the 19 deadly signs of cheating, and how to understand men to round you out. Though honestly, if your man is cheating you will find out. Were not that clever.
Girls live in a state of constant worry and anxiety in a way men do not I’ve come to learn. Not that it is a bad or good thing, it is what it is. Even if everything seems fine to the man, it never is that way for a woman. The need to be constantly reassured. If their not reassured they begin to worry. OMG you didn’t text her for one day? You must having sex with someone else then. This is what makes being a good boyfriend work, you must complete and compliment her on a regular basis
This is the third part of a three part series on men moving to fast sexually, women moving too fast emotionally, how this makes dating difficult, and some solutions. Part 1 was on men moving fast sexually and part 2 was the discussion on women moving fast emotionally.
Men have a tendency that is very annoying to girls. They move fast too sexually within a relationship. Guys meeting a girl off line and inviting them over their house immediately, getting a bit too touchy feely to quickly, being overly aggressive when you don’t even know each other. What this translates into for girls can be summed up into one phrase: Men are only interested in me for sex.
This is the second part of a three part series on men moving to fast sexually, women moving too fast emotionally, how this makes dating difficult, and some solutions. First part was on men moving fast physically.
So we covered why men move fast sexually when dating. It is because of sex drive among other things, which is based upon genetics. Girls move fast as well, just not necessarily physically like men. They move fast emotionally. To explain better, Ill share two real examples from two different girl I dated who both moved way to fast emotionally. The problem with moving to fast physically or emotionally is you could potentially be missing out on a satisfying relationship. Lets get into it.
“I am just so tired of guys moving too fast sexually at the beginning of a relationship, where are all the gentleman?” I’m sure this phrase sounds familiar to many girls reading this. So why do men move so fast? Why do so many men invite women on the second or third date to have sex. Why do so many men cheat. Some men may even dump a woman if she won’t put out. What the hell is going on? Where are all the gentlemen? Lets talk about human sexuality for a moment.
Battle of the sexes, men vs women, guys vs girls.The two sides have slugged it out; but is there a victor? Can there finally be an end in store for us? So that maybe, just maybe, the cliche phrase “battle of the sexes” can be vanquished from the English lexicon forever? Well, in a Time Magazine special, “The State of Women”, Time has officially declared the war a tie. Yes a tie. How anti-climatic. So unfortunately for me, I will be forced to continue to use the phrase Battle of the Sexes: