August 2009

Social Dating

social dating

Social dating is the blur between online dating and social networking. Zoosk co-founder Alex Mehr at the most recent Internet Dating Conference in Beverly Hill’s predicted that online dating within social platforms would soon be more successful than traditional, stand alone dating sites.

“Everything is going to dissolve into the new social operating system such as Facebook,” said Mehr in an interview for Online Personals Watch. Zoosk, who went from zero users to 30 million users in less than two years is evident that this blending of the two can be quite a successful recipe for success and domination of this new category.

Online dating + Social networking = Social dating

But what’s the difference between online dating and social dating exactly? According to Mehr, traditional online dating is like walking into a bar alone whereas social dating is like showing up to a bar with your friends and just having fun. Read More…

Cheating Girlfriend

backstab2 Cheating Girlfriend

I have a huge question to ask you . I have a cheating girlfriend. I dated this girl now for over a year, known her for 3 years. I know when she drinks she just gets horny as hell. People in her past would get her drunk just to get at her. Well last Thursday she was at a bonfire with friends drinking. I had left her due to an early work day and went home. Next day she tells me she hooked up with this guy. She feels awful. She says she relapsed back into her old way and didn’t mean anything. Tells me she knows she has a problem with drinking and promises me to stop drinking. Wants to go to counseling with me just to save what we have. I do love and care for her so much, but how do you forget this and move on? Its the worse feeling I have ever had. Anyone have any experience with something like this. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Thanks Read More…



Some of these signs of cheating are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell-tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating significant other.

Numero uno: number one sign that an affair is happening is a change in sexual needs. Humans are animals with simple urges, we get hungry, need to drink and like having sex. Our arousal levels don’t suddenly change unless something is wrong. If you have noticed that amongst other signs your partner seem no longer interested in intimacy with you as regularly as he or she once did, especially if it happens all of a sudden, than that should raise the red flags.

Red Flags

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.
2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the
evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.
8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls/ text messages, etc…from the caller ID. Read More…