June 2009

Life Sucks then you Die

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The tag line for this site is “find love and be happy”. A simple and descriptive line, but make no mistake the finding love part is difficult, and holding on to that feeling of happiness has been a burning struggle for people for a millenia. Revolutions have occurred because people were unhappy with their lot in life. Falling in love with someone else is easily one of the most satisfying and fulfilling parts of life. It can lead to a powerful sensation of completeness and happiness. To the point where you don’t need anything else because you don’t want anything else. I hope everyone reading this to experience it. So why is it such a challenge for some people? Finding that love puts you on a surprising path of personal growth. Read More…

Does he love Me?

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You love your girl friend right? Does she know? “Yea, why wouldn’t she”? You might be thinking. I’ll share a tough lesson learned. Girls like to be reassure of how you feel about them….on a regular basis mind you. Does he love me? Does he still love me? You may think that when the day comes when you marry them and say “I do” that your professing you love to the world about how you feel about them, that now the deal is done and your off the hook. Well the deal is never done for girls. Their tends to be an underlininginsecurity with girls, no matter how good the relationship. For example:

  • When she asks do you love me, even though you didn’t do anything to indicate other-wise.
  • Wants to talk, talk, talk about your relationship, a topic not really enjoyed by too many guys.
  • Takes your need for space as indication that you don’t feel as strongly for her, or that your tired of her. Read More…

Facebook dating ads are bringing back lame advertising

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With the evolution of the Internet, so has evolved advertising.  The advent of web 2.0 is the rise of social media companies like Facebook; which are in a unique position to engage their audience with more sophisticated advertising due to the abundance of data they have on their users. So why the heck  is Facebook and many other website showing such lame advertising ?

Short answer is sex sells, and Facebook has a tremendous ad inventory to sell apparently to settle for this crap!  A perfect example is the ad you see to yourright, which apart the absolute obvious irony, is basically the same sales pitch that the Internet was offering a decade ago. Read More…

A Man’s love is loyalty. Your love is different.

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Men and women are very different creatures.  Girls, understand that a man’s love  is different. To put it as simply:  A man’s love is loyalty. Girls love is nurturing, emotional,  heartfelt, all consuming. The kind of love that make’s it so  she can’t see herself with anyone else, because no one else should compare.  She is completly loyal, and loyalty is what love is to us men.

We want you to show your love to us by being loyal to us. This means you stand by us no matter what. We get laid off and arent drawing  a pay check, your not going to be gone as soon as the money is. Read More…

Totally free Dating!

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Taking girls out is expensive. Dating overall can be expensive. Since you don’t want to be a jerk, most guys will offer to pay for dinner, the tickets, flowers. The whole damn thing! But what the heck do you do if you’re on a tight budget? Stay home with your dog? Thats pretty lame, but dating on the cheap is possible and it can allow you to be creative while showing the lucky lady a good time. Of course being Mr. Frugal and Thrifty, aka Mr. Chepo is  a turn-off for most ladies, then no need to let on how much you’re saving.

Shel Horowitz, author of The Penny-Pinching Hedonist: How to Live Like Royalty on a Peasant’s Pocketbook, is a frugal guru with more than 25 years of experience in saving money, time and lowering your cost of living.

Always investigate if there is a cheaper way or a cheaper option,” Horowitz said. He gave the example of going to see a show at a community theater where the seats are often right at the stage, instead of buying the “cheaper” tickets to a Broadway show in the nosebleed section. Horowitz said he has seen the advantages of finding cheaper or free alternatives; they far outweigh the benefits, and are more rewarding.

When romancing  as el chepo,  Shel is showing you to use your head and be creative. Disclaimer: Helps if you have a brain

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